You have to man up and do something about it. Kdotc - I'm curious as to how old you are and where you're from. The stuff you say makes me think you're 15. =T I don't know who these kids that pick on you are, but what kind of people are they? Are they in a gang? Are there gangs in your area? I for one, did that whole thing back around 10 years ago when I was in High School. Back then, I thought it was all fun and games picking on kids who couldn't/wouldn't stand up for themselves. I always said it was their fault for allowing it to happen by not doing anything about it. But now, when I think of it, there just wasn't anything they could do. I blame myself for being the asswhole that I was and not having better judgement. What are a few asian kids going to do about a few "bigger, tougher, and meaner" asian kids picking on them? Especially when their friends are like them, but my friends were all gangsters? There's absolutely nothing they can do about it except tell a teacher, but that would only end up worse outside of school. Hah, I'm assuming you go to Stuyvesant? There's alot of "wanna be's" that go there, but at the same time, there are also kids who will back up what they say. From my experience of being a bully, I was willing to fight, be it with fists or with weapons. But I was never willing to kill anyone. My friends had guns, but I always stuck with a pipe and a knife (though I'd never stab someone, shooting is much easier. I don't think I'd be able to pull the knife out, which is the reason I use a pipe). With that said, violence is never the answer. If you plan to stop them from picking on you by being a tough guy and fighting, you have to be willing to go one step beyond them. If they are the "tough guys" of your school and you're just a normal kid, I do not advise this route at all. It's only going to make your 2+ years left at school worse. If you do happen to win this fight, then will come back looking for another round, and then another and another. But what has stopped me from picking on someone is when they show HOW crazy they are and HOW far they're willing to go. I still remember this one kid who threatened to shoot me if I continued to pick on him, then a few days later, heard how he brought a gun to school. That quickly changed my attitude toward him. Hell, he could have picked on me and I would have taken it. I also do not advise this plan as well. I think the best way to handle this would be to become friends with their friends. The friends tend to have a big influence on how they will treat you. When they see you mingling with their own friends, they'll most likely switch to other kids to bully around.
^ violence was just a part of my high skool chapter man...knowing 3 ppl that died due to gang and drugs..it ain't ez...SZEEN? and y would u want to suffer in for liek 2 more years in high skool...high skool should b a memorable one since later erone gona go to college
You're right -shock I do go to Stuyvesant! How did you know? Well, I doubt they're in a real gang...they're just wannabe gangsters. Though I know that they're rich...I mean one of them wears like a brand new pair of shoes every 3-4 days. I didn't do anything today though. I still haven't really decided how I want to handle this yet. I mean, I really am trying to stay away from violence and I didn't want to make a big commotion during class today >.<
well damn.. step on their shoes next time n push 'em... you gotta cause a big ruckus like that.. else they won't know you serious...
I've never been afraid of defending myself, but I've almost never had to raise my fist, a strong solid stare goes a long ways. But I'm not much of a resort to violence type of guy. I'm a lets stir this ish up type of guy. People who need to start picking on others are usually the ones with very little self-esteem and confidence, so use that to your advantage. If I was in your shoes, I'd start nasty rumors. Make sure everyone in school know those 2 are gay lovers who anal each other everyday with their pencil d*cks. I would not let them know it was me who created the rumors. I'd create a new rumor every week until no one respects them or until they stop messing with people. Once the rumors have spread, you can always step it up. Ah the gift of anonymously giving... viagra. shrug... While being picked on in class, I'd just asually flip them the bird while chatting with my neighboring classmates (preferrably flirting with a cute girl) having a great time. I wouldn't even look at them because they don't deserve it.
Fighting is not fun and not something to be proud of and even when you have to fight, it's use to protect yourself and your love ones... Err... Did I go too deep?...
haha. they probably buying the shoes and returning them in a few days. lol One trick is when they get aggressive go up to them scream and yell alot with movements in the body (if u are skinny) I know a small black guy that does that a lot and ppl gets intimidated. LOL
Personally i wouldnt take this crap from them, but as im not in ur situation its hard to say. i mean its 50-50, you could stand up to them and they could give up on you, or they could take real offence and make it even worse. HAha thats what some of the "gangsta" people do in da UK, it became "fashionable" to keep the tags on things like caps and bags, but its really cause they just return the stuff.... thats cause they think you crazy, people dont mess with crazy people, ALSO, I think it was in CKY when that brandon armildilo(?) dude said something like "if you got shit in your hand, aint no body messing with you"
guess you gotta pull some Home Alone shit n start settin' booby traps... hahhahah... Do The Right Thing... Be A Man!
So you've been in knife fights but you're afraid of a group of guys and in this case just two guys that are picking on you? That doesn't make any sense. Anyway, just rush them and start throwing punches dude, spitting is enough of a reason to do something but you're tolerating a "fireball" in the face? Dude, that's enough to make a pacifist fight. So just rush em and throw punches dude, you gotta grow some balls sooner or later. Edit: Also, you could probably take my uncles advice, when he first came to the U.S. some kids which happened to be asian also, started picking on him cause he was F.O.B. So anyway, one day he waited for them to seperate and one went into the restoom so my uncle waited for a few secs so the guy would be in the middle of pissing right, so my uncle went in and punched the guy in back of the head and grabbed the guys shirt then said something like "if you ever fuck with me again I'll beat you so bad ur mom won't recognise you (but in viet so it sounds funnier)" and they never messed with him again.
ahhahaa... damn thas hella funny... Or do what pepsi's unc did.. but bring a pair of scissors with you.. that would prolly scare the shit outta them... then everytime he walk pass.. pretend like you holdin the scissors..
LMAO.. oh shit.. not that chuckie A. shit... V-Unit.. ahahahah omfg... hhahhaha I swear he said Tap Sum Bong in there somewhere...
LMFAO ROFLCOPTER!!! HAHAHAHA when the cars roll up its SO funny-rotfl -rotfl Ghetto Neon, Civic and Accord... these guys are such posers... this made my day "Lets go save the fat kid" - accord revs to 6000 rpm >.< >.< >.<
lol ya kno.. I dunno what to say.. I mean.. it was a bit honorable for them to help out the lil kid.. but then the other shit.. lol.. yo K... you should battle Chuckie... xD
Yo Fearless... WTF are you talkin' about Chuckie n his crew like that... they the "realest muthafukas in the world, ya understand?" and I don't appreciate you talkin' about him like that..
lol didnt know u felt so strongly about them ecko my opinion of 'real' is getting a job that pays, buying a nice place and a nice car, and then maybe pursuing rap/music in one's spare time, but maybe im just too traditional. lol it just really cracks me up to see a dodge neon in a rap music video.
