Death..

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by Syreeta, Jan 25, 2006.

  1. Syreeta

    Syreeta Well-Known Member

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    It's almost one year ago i lost my mum.. Cancer..
    17 March was the day that she died..
    I'm very scared for 17 march, because i do'n know what to do at 17 march..

    some advice?
     
  2. jaclynlim81

    jaclynlim81 Guest

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    celebe lirate it...look at photo albums......talk to someone about it cry and laugh then wipe your tears and live the life your mother wants you to.....remember she is watching.....so dont waste it
     
  3. Err0r

    Err0r Well-Known Member

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    drinking always helps in those situations

    or just go out and spend some money (movies, shopping, etc) with friends, dont think about what happened

    find serenity to accept the things you cant change
     
  4. lionheart

    lionheart Well-Known Member

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    yup, you are right.
     
  5. donkeyhit

    donkeyhit Well-Known Member

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    lol owned...

    btw.. i think what he meant is what he should do for his mom... what u said was really cold and makes me think u have no emotion at all...

    back to the main point...
    I'm sure your mom would be happy whatever you will be doing... dont worry too much... I guess you can give her a prayer =) that always help
     
  6. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    i dont think you should get involved
    you shouldnt use someone mother in a converation
     
  7. gyyr2

    gyyr2 Well-Known Member

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    Hey.. I was in the same situation 8 years ago when I first lost my dad due to a heart attack and then my mum 6 months later thru' cancer. What was worse or you could say good was at the sametime I lsot my job. This gave me the chance to look after her and over the days I could see her becoming worse and worse. In the end, She died in her sleep at the hospital. I was glad to see the suffering ended. Yes. I was sad for almost 5 years but over time, you grow stronger and realise that we all will have to face death one day. As a Christian, I'm not afraid as I've believe one day I'll return to Heaven, where we all belong.
     
  8. AZNracerx1989

    AZNracerx1989 Member

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    ^^ that sux :(
     
  9. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    Do not get depressed and stuff over your mom's death. You should celebrate and be happy that such a person lived. ^-^
     
  10. don

    don ello

    life moves on.....
     
  11. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    for most people yes it move on
    but other become despressed
    and do stupid things
     
  12. markleong

    markleong Member

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    sometimes it is good to mull over things for a bit, but dont get too obsessed with it. eventually, the world moves along and you'll have to move with it.
     
  13. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    sometime when you think about it
    it is hard to move on
    yes
    it is a good idea to move on
     
  14. Zoescarlet

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    sorry bout your mum, but i think u should face it head on.. no point avoiding... your mum would want u to be happy and face life head on... just do what u think she wants u to do.. be happy cause ur mum would want u too
     
  15. Syreeta

    Syreeta Well-Known Member

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    thnxx.. you guys helping me a lot:D
     
  16. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    np
    anytime -innocent :p :D -clapclap
     
  17. don

    don ello

    love what you have right now =)
     
  18. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    lolz
    also enjoy your life
     
  19. don

    don ello

    sometimes really hard to enjoy life when there are people that are in the way <_<
     
  20. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    think postive
    if someone hit/beat you
    think as they showing tough love