Need Advice ~ My Situation

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by rchok2, May 27, 2008.

  1. rchok2

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    i met this girl Sally about 2 1/2 months ago when i came for studies through my roomie Charles. later i found out that she had feelings for Charles n she confessed however he kinda pretend nothing ever happned. so it went on a while n she found out that he likes her roomie Yui but she already had a bf. yeah its complicated... me, charles, yui n sally hang out at least 3-4 times a week n i find her very likable n i fell for Sally. i confessed, well she din give an answer but i kinda expected it i know she still has feelings for Charles. honestly she was d least expected girl i'd fell for...we shared almost if not all diff values n interests. yet afterall we r still close. she'd come looking for me whenever she's being upset n moody.... one day she told me she had feelings for me too... soon i came to know it was never true... she never asked how am i, she never cared...i was just a soft pillow 2 cry on whenever she's sad...it was Charles all along since she always asked me bout him n yet i took d time 2 patiently entertain her... the thing is knowing dat i have feelings for her she still does it... it hurts n it hurts bad... afterall knowing that my concerns my care would never reach her, i dunno y do i keep hanging on...knowing what i do can never reach her... it felt foolish n really STUPID!!! i've tried 2 distract myself with friends n games....but to no avail...i really need 2 shake this feelings off ~ help!
     
    #1 rchok2, May 27, 2008
    Last edited: May 28, 2008
  2. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    That was confusing as hell...
     
  3. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    aiyah... so she's just using you??
    you seem like a really nice guy if you still put up with her when she treats you like that, so you'd probably be able to find a better girl that will treat you right
     
  4. Go Bone C and Ditch S. Remember multiple choices.. answer is always C...
     
  5. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member


    dude .. C is a guy .. LOL
    unless i'm misunderstanding what you're trying to say .. -huh
     
  6. metzo

    metzo Well-Known Member

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    lol what u just said actually made me laugh XD
     
  7. that would make my comment even more hilarious wouldn't it? -rotfl
     
  8. Aznmask

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    i dont want to read it.. to the OP.. can you make the name let say

    - me, C, Y n S ?? make n = and stop abbreviation that is confusing like hell

    make a name for them.. C is a guy make it Charles.. or Y .. etc a person can be a male or female..
     
  9. Grimninja

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    Wow definately hard to understand but not an uncommon situation and well i have to say "S" is using you big time.
     
  10. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member


    hahahha and WAY MORE disturbing
     
  11. lol whatever.. ya foolish.. go find another girl.. option B.
     
  12. skid

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    ooohh shes just using you...and she knows it too

    its hard when you like her, but you have to try and get over her and just move on. If not it will just be awkward, especially when she likes your friend.
     
  13. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    haha go for the Option K or T ^^
     
  14. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    this is not chemistry lol or maths specialist XD

    i gave up reading after 2 sentence.
     
  15. Flames

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    -bigsmiles-bigsmiles-bigsmiles

    Simple, start of with Y, C and S
    Solution ditch S, so you have Y and C, then add M and A, mix em up and you get yourself an indian, a police, a cowboy, an engineer and an army dude
    ;) Cheers!
     
  16. some ppl feel content by just giving n giving... they're happy to c the one they care abt is happy... but obviously ur not that selfless (whis is perfectly normal n understandable) so if u dun wanna play that soft pillow anymore just stop hanging out with her... u'll get over it eventually...
     
  17. drsnoopy

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    wtf i stopped reading after a while. you got drama issues. stop getting into drama. how about that?? go get somebody else.
     
  18. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    cliff notes anyone?

    use paragraphs please
     
  19. sharpie

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    word of advice. learn proper english.
     
  20. JABBAWOCKEEZ

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    that wasnt that hard to read lol
    basically OP likes sally who likes charles who likes yui who already has a boyfriend