which parent do you go to?

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by smallrinilady, Mar 18, 2007.

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which parents to do you go to ask for money/advice

  1. Always go to mom, she's the one who birthed me and stayed home to raise me

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  2. Only dad, cause mom is crazy

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  3. I got to one parent for money and to the other one when i need to chat

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  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    if you need something such as money, advice, or someone just to talk to, which parent do you go to


    sorry i'm not trying to be insensitive to those in single parents cases
     
  2. THF20

    THF20 is a Chinese

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    I tend to go and ask both - mother & father.
     
  3. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    neither...i rather go to aunt or friends
     
  4. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    lol it don't matter which one i discuss with... in the end they'll both know what's happening lol.
    can't pick an option outta them 3 lol.
     
  5. jonjonk

    jonjonk Well-Known Member

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    that is soo true! I would tell my mom something secret and tells her "dont tell dad"...then dad finds out 2-3minutes later
     
  6. april07

    april07 Active Member

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    I am more to my mom. She is very easy to talk to.
    Asking for money... hehehe. I don't think I ever ask.
    Can't really tell much secret to mom as always someone in my family member get to know in hours. Maybe she does keep the secret for a day but not the next day.
    My dad was a Fierce man but he grew older, it was no so bad as I grew older too. =)
    Anyways, I love talking to both of my parent.
     
  7. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    lol, when I was younger, I could always get money out of my daddy lol. It was funny.. Hmm, I used to talk to my mum alot, not as much now, but I can always trust my mother with confidential things, like "guess what I heard about..." or "guess what happened..." kind of topics lol and vice versa.
     
  8. *momo

    *momo Well-Known Member

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    if i have problems i consult my friends. my parents always make things worse...
     
  9. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I don't really bond with my mother, she's the passive-aggressive type without much reliable/useful resources.

    I never ask either of them for money though, get a job when I needed to spend, so I guess that partially explains why I am not a huge spender.
     
  10. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    it's interesting
    since my mom was a stay at home mom
    i was really close to her as a kid
    my dad only worked, i rarely saw him
    so when i needed money or advice i would go to her

    now that i'm grown up, these past few years I've realized
    my mom's kinda crazy
    although my dad was never around, i learned that he really loved us, and he was never around because he believed that the best way he could help his family was to provide them with everything they needed, which could all be bought by money. so al he did was work, to bring money home for us
    now that i'm adult we talk differently now
    i learned my dad is actually really smart, and quite funny

    so now when i need help, or someone to talk to i will go to my dad over my mom anyday
     
  11. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    Money - Mom
    Advice - Dad
    Someone to talk to - None :(
     
  12. sp-lork

    sp-lork Well-Known Member

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    neither. can i choose my grandpa? =T
     
  13. lwmtang

    lwmtang Well-Known Member

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    It depends. If it's something that I could get in trouble for..I tell my mom. =P If it's something where I need my dad support..cause he has more power in my family.then I asked my dad.