well the very uncertain thing to do is to tell them to stop this and it is upsetting you.the other thing if the first thing fail and maybe it sound worse than it is you could just take walk.o would just listen to music in my room until they are finished.
well my parent's hardly ever argue but when they do i usually just ignore it let them solve the problem
And come live with you? -rolleyes I agree with "hem". I think you should let your parents know that their arguing is bothering you because chances are that if they know it's affecting you, they're more likely to stop. I know it can be very frustrating when parents argue, but it's a very normal thing for parents to disagree and have disputes from time to time.. I know for my parents, the arguments are just a way for them to let off steam when they have a bad day or feel stressed out over other things, like their jobs... You can always go to your room and listen to music, watch a movie, or go outside to get some fresh air until they eventually cool down. Just find something to do that will distract you. It might also help if you talk to a friend about it, or you can always vent it out in the rant forum and I'm sure some of us here will give you some consolation. Ultimately, when something upsets you, it's better to let all your feelings out instead of bottling them up inside. Anyway, you posted this message a few days ago, so hopefully everything is okay between the 2 of them now...
umm I don't know about that. The people on this forum seem to have something against Fai for some reason. -huh But yeah parents arguing is a normal thing. When that I happens I usually use go to my room shut the door and listen to some loud music until its over.
hes ok...rougher on the edges when he was here before all of u...toned down now....n about this parents thing...shit happens....wat can u do...either leave for a bit or tell em ut bothets u...parents will always argue...
Yeah well I would just go to my room as well, but most of the time, they would be like, "The hell are you doing upstairs? Come down!" and drag me into their arguement then they yell at me for... doing nothing... for me, telling them that it bothers me and effects me when they argue doesn't help... so if I'm there... I just ignore them... so ignore...
Yes I agree, that's a good thing to do: ignore. Because eventaully, each parent wants you to side for them, and you get caught in their shit. Then one parent will get angry because you chose to side with the other one. But a plus side to this is that the parents are so consumed in their arguments that sometimes they forget about you, so you can pretty much do whatever you want without them noticing, like ie. staying out late. Another plus is using their arguing for blackmail, like if you choose to support one parent, you can eventually blackmail or take advantage of the entire situation.
Yeee... can't do that... they make me stay in the house, so can't go no where... meh, it could work though. lol.
for me, its grab my md player, and walk straight out, i hate it when parents argue, so annoying, and it makes me worry that i might turn out like em from influence >_<
Uh... no. Can't do that either. lol. Like I can go ANYWHERE... Hmm... well there are times when they start yelling at me... actually most of the arguments are between me and them... or my bro and them... over like... nothing... I remember a couple years ago, they got all pissed that I forgot to put away the clothes or something, and from clothes to ah you get the idea. Well I've raised my voice many times to them... and they go nuts... like all, "Don't you raise your voice at us!!! We're your parents!" -_- but um... yeah, the best thing is ignore.
