What do you do when life loses direction

Discussion in 'Philosophy & Religion' started by Nirvania, May 27, 2008.

  1. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    When you have no close friends

    When you are not very connected with parents

    When it feels like the past 4 years was a waste

    When it feels like life fails....
     
  2. brown_bear

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    WELCOME BACK NIRV.....-^_^......

    PERHAPS YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A ROUGH PATCH AT THE MOMENT AND NEED TO TAKE A BREAK FROM THINGS
    COZ WHEN IM FEELING IN ONE OF THEM DEPRESSED MOMENTS I LEAVE THINGS LIKE HOMEWORK AND DO SOMETHING
    ELSE TO TAKE MY MIND OFF THINGS....MOST OF THE TIME IF YOU TAKE A BREAK FROM THINGS YOU WILL SEE THINGS
    FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.....SO TAKE A DAY OFF FROM WHATEVER YOU'RE DOING AND RELAX.....AND THINGS
    WILL SLOWLY FALL BACK INTO PLACE....HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON....!!....-hug
     
  3. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    problem is when nothing has ever been in place

    And don't go caps with me lol
     
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  4. brown_bear

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    The Phase When You Start To Question Everything Eh.....
    Ya Getting That Feeling Like Ya Lost...?!.....mebe Ya Need To Set A Goal/target For Yourself To Work Towards..?!...


    Whuts Wront With Caps..?!....dun Be So Anti-caps....xp
     
  5. bb... nirv is going thru a tough time.. the least you can do is be respectful and not go caps in this thread only..
     
  6. cadeline

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    It's difficult when you feel disconnected with life. Time seemed to have slipped by and nothing feels relevant.

    However, life does become meaningful when you choose to participate. Do not choose to stand ideally by. Choose to do something. Choose to give. Giving is one of the most powerful source of hope for people who have no hope (For the giver and receiver). Perhaps this is the key?

    Choose to live, Nirvana.
     
  7. p3ps1c0la

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    There are billions of people on earth. That's a whole lot of characters to meet. Just let things fall where they may. Go with the flow.

    Do something about it.

    Learn from those mistakes.

    Life is what you make of it. Take some time for yourself and reflect. Do a little thinking. It'll come to you. It always does. Whatever it is.
     
  8. tiffystars

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    heeeyy...
    the future is exciting~~~ you never know..tomorrow, something amazing could happen...
    as Pepsicola said.."life is what you make of it".. this is your life... it's your path and no one elses..
    and... plz plz plz, be connected with your parents more... because just remember--- friends come and go.. family doesn't.
    and last of all.. Prayer helps .. =)
     
  9. Physica

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    you just need to find a new road of life and go with that.
     
  10. aznsnipa

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    go do something u like to do. I luv badminton, how bout u?
     
  11. MissCheekS

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    oooh i think everyone goes through that kinda phase sometimes...nothing feels right...
    but its really up to u if u wanna fix ur life n make it enjoyable or not...
    life is what u make out of it....u can go whereever u like n do whatever u want
    im sure deep inside u know what will make u happy...if ur clear about that u can work towards that and reach ur goal n eventually get happiness

    things happen for a reason...past 4 years were fail....well look back n think it through... what happened...what went wrong
    if u know ur wrongs then try not to do the same thing again

    bad bond with parents...im sure u can work on that... just spend more time with them n communicate lor

    no close friends.....go out n meet some new ppl n make friends lor...

    remember...its up to u...u choose whta direction u wanna head into
     
  12. dim8sum

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    ^yeh i agree with cheeks, life is what you make it

    so to be a bit harsh, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something about it
     
  13. qkchrissy

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    MissAngieCheeks is right, life is what you make of it.

    If you feel your last 4 years was a waste then have you thought of the reasons why it was a waste? was it really a waste or is it because you are in that frame of mind at the moment?

    As many have said, you are just going through a bad patch and just have to find yourself.

    i always think that the more negative you think, the more depressed you will be so why not think more positively to life.

    if things were really that bad in the past then do something to make it better. Dwelling on the past isn't going to make anything better for your future is it. You have your future to look to so do something that will make you happy.
     
  14. When you have no close friends ---- be more social (trust me not everyone has close friends)

    When you are not very connected with parents - get connected , call them up or talk more.

    When it feels like the past 4 years was a waste - use this as an experience to do something better right now

    When it feels like life fails.... start changin and try doin what u were not doin that made u feel fail?
     
  15. !!!TwiLite!!!

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    Rely on religion?? Go read a looonng Book, go find a job you like, GO TRAVEL
    Do community service...

    I think you need a motive =] so go set ur self something..maybe something well happen
    don't plan, don't think, just do it..and see what you'll get...
     
  16. what do you do? you change.... change your ways cause if you think the last 4 years was a waste then obviously whatever it was you were doing wasn't working out and different paths need to be explored....
     
  17. ultraman123

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    make the best of life. you only live once. somehow everything will work out. :biggthumpup: