Unsure...

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by whoaitselaine, Mar 4, 2006.

  1. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    -unsure How can you tell whether a guy likes you or not? I like this boy that I'm not really close to.. and I'm not sure if he likes me. Everytime my friends ask him if he does, he says "no". =/ What should I do?
     
  2. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    ask him
    that teh best way
    make sure you dont regret if you dont
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    What if you're scared to kno the answer? ><"
     
  4. lionheart

    lionheart Well-Known Member

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    it is better to regret on what you did, rather than regretting on what you didnt do.

    no guts, no glory
     
  5. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    But I'm like almost 100% sure he doesn't like me. :(
     
  6. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    Well, if your almost 100% sure, then you're also a lil unsure, so go for it if you want it bad enough.
     
  7. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    I'm too scared. -.- And... my friends have asked him also. He says no. Which is sad.
     
  8. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    well, it could always be one of those things where he doesn't want to admit it to anyone else before he knows it's mutual.
     
  9. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    -___- But it's so disappointing.. I mean if you like a girl, why wouldn't you admit it?! Argh, sometimes it makes me feel.. unwanted -__-"
     
  10. Why wouldn't he like you... unless your a dude... usually askin thru a friend will leave kinda bad impression. Nobody wants to know if you like them through friends, because the friend could be messin with ya. Or she might be tryin to get him before you do... maybe not. But the point is, its always better to tell the person yourself that you like him. And if he don't want you, hit me up baby -cool -lol
     
  11. hkm91450

    hkm91450 Well-Known Member

    Try to flirt with him a bit more, have fun with him, be playful, and maybe even ask him to 'hang out' if you got the guts....

    Just because he says he doesn't like you to your friends, doesn't mean he's telling the truth. Maybe he really does like you, and is really shy about it, and so he doesn't want to tell your friends that he does like you.

    Anyways, then, if he's still cold towards you, or if there's not much chemistry or an attraction, then he's not the one... There's so many more guys out there, he's not worth your time then.

    I've had this happen to me before too, where a guy 100% didn't like me in that like like way, he only liked me as friend. But I still went after him, and then after that 'rejection', after friends telling me that he doesn't like me in that way, and after a couple of weeks, I finally got over him.

    Well, good luck~ :D

    (By the way, shouldn't this thread be in the RELATIONSHIPS & SEX section of the forum ?????)
     
  12. damn guess they had to -bash you in the head for you to get the point -lol

    and if it all doesn't work out... rent your self a porn and "ji mor" (mahjong reference) -lol eversince I watched that Kung Fu Mahjong 2 LOLROFLMAO
     
  13. donkeyhit

    donkeyhit Well-Known Member

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    usually when i think a girl is asking a guy out... i'm usually think they are desperate (no offence)... anywaz like it say earlier... i believe the best way is to flirt with him etc... if he still doesnt ask u out i'm pretty sure he doesnt like you... but life is like that...all u can do is hope =)
     
  14. naruto1314

    naruto1314 Well-Known Member

    exectly
    have no regret and be brave for once ot ask him
     
  15. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    LOL, right :p