i've known this girl and/or together, 1 yr. 7 months. i first know her, cuz i always see her mostly walking down the streets or sometimes near a table next to a resturant. she started talking to me, and then we know each other after awhile. but today this morning i just met her in the library. and she asked me out on a date the second time. somehow, me and her kind of have a "love" connection with each other, she have feelings for me a lot. i don't know what to do about it, but i kind of have feelings for her also. she's actually hk cantonese also, and 2 yrs. older than me, i don't think it's that bad though. but last time when she was on a date w/ me, i felt so uncomfortable, cuz we both are the same sex gender. creepy, i know. she say that it will be at 9pm tonight, and i don't know if i should go or not. but i said yes already. if i should of said no, i'm scared that she might be heartbroken, and if not, she will maybe annoy me or come around me more often and ask why. but then i have to come back home late. and i don't want my parents to know, i just said that i'm having a sleepover at some friends' house, and they allow me. but she told me to stay the night with her afterwards, but i'm scared that she might have something on her mind while i'm there. i think she's pretty and sexy, and i like her also. but i don't know if i should or not. cuz if i do stay with her one night, i got the feeling that she might of do something unusual. and this is gonna be the first time that i've stay the night at her house. but luckily, she doesn't really live with her parents. so... i don't know if it will be a good thing to go there. somehow i kind of want our relationship to last longer, but it just feels weird. everytime when i'm near her, i kind of have feelings for her but i also feel nervous. i don't think she feels nervous about us hugging each other, cuz she's kind of like the 'i don't care' type of person, by anyone looking at us, so i don't think she really feels bothered or nervous by it. could you guys help me out? if your a girl like me, in my type of position, what would you do? -doh
So u are a bisexual then?! I am just wondering, there isnt any particular reason. Anyway, go for it I think...
Are u asking me? If u are, then yeah, thats because if u both like each other, then I dont see a problem here. -what?
i think u should first figure out what your sexual orientation is....maybe by seeing tonight will give u some answers. However i don't think u should stay at her place, like u said, it may make this complicated and may feel weird...just hang out and see how it feels...maybe u will find some answers
Whoa super Hotness... Go for it!! Go for it!! I mean really tho. you guys have know each other for awhile. And it's pretty obvious that you do have some kinda feelings for her but you hold it back for fear that people aren't gonna accept you... or whatever. But yea.. since you already told her yes. Just go chill... and whatever your not comfortable with just tell her. lol oh boy, talk about some kinda sleepover..-lol but what your parent's dont know won't hurt 'em so yea... if yall need like a camera man or somethin' for whatever reason -whistle... holla at cha boy! -bigsmile
hey man they're girls btw. Um.. a girl... Well never been in these situations before, so i would say if you relli have that kind of feeling go for it init. Oh yeah don't spend the night i wouldn't recommend that...
most of you guys would think this is a good idea. i think i might be fine with that also. it seems like it might be okay for me to go with her, just to chill. But staying the night.. i'm also not sure, maybe. if i can't go on with her for the night, i could rent a hotel to stay for one night.... so i think it could be okay. -flow for some reason i think that my sexual orientation is on her for right now. and i think i might decide to just go with her for tonight, i don't think it will gonna turn out as bad. cuz we both sorta have feelings for each other, and somehow i can't really hold it if i like someone. might as well go with the flow.
well put it this way... one of the worst thing that can happen is ur date getting u pregnant... n obviously this isn't gonna happen... if u know she's a good person n u like her a lot then y not give it a go??
Give it a go! Give it a go! -clapclap Yea go with the flow and see what happens. Nothin' could go bad... unless she ties you up and make you spend the nite with her... -shock -lol. and hey since your young n your a girl... it's easier for you to experiment with things and see what you like. But I mean if you were a dude and something like this happens.. there's like no way of going back. Cuz once you decide to have anal sex with a guy... you've made it official... you have officially gave up the p****. so uhh make sure you let us know how it goes... and maybe takes some pictures... for uhh... proof that the date went well... -shrug -lol
then this means that i'm still a virgin if i'm with another girl???? -what? somehow, i don't know about going for guys. cuz they seem to scare me by their ****... i don't think i'm ready for those, maybe when i'm much more older. i just only like guys, but not ready for the whatever to each other yet. you could say that i'm a "lam lui doh jung yi".... but it's okay right? and isn't it a wrong thing for a girl and another girl to be with each other? lol but anyways, were both young. so i don't think it matters for now..... hah, that is true! i don't have to worry about anything, cuz it's never gonna happen that we get pregnant. that would be just wrong. -tongue2 i don't really have to think about it, cuz if i'm with her she just ignore whatever that's behind us. cuz she doesn't really like to care about other person that's gonna be around us. i think it will turn out okay. thanks for the suggestion everyone!
Hey so how'd teh lil date go??? give us some details... where there any pillow fights happenin'?? -bigsmile
haha... you still remember. i thought you would of forget already. of course not, no pillow fight! anyways, i DID go with her. she was very pretty last night. And we had a fun night together though. I actually spend the night, and i also couldn't sleep at all, all we did was fool around with each other throughout the night. then after that..... i can't tell you. cuz it would of been unappropriate for you to read. but overall, it was great. actually, i got home at 7am and slept 'til 2pm afterwards. -flow and right now, I still felt abit like sleeping again. -sleep but since i'm in front of the computer, the light reflects to my eyes.
oh wt uff... it's only inappropriate for them... good lawd... up till 7.. -shock thas a wild night. but uhh yo send me a pm... and gimme some details... so i can uh... you know... give you some advise... on what you should do next time -bigsmile
hahah omg, you guys are pervs! Leave the girl alone. Whatever she did with the other girl last night is her business. Girls don't kiss and tell -rolleyes
-lol That's very nice of you to offer ahead of time, Ecko, but I'm sure that if she needs any advice, she'll ask for it herself.
