Reuters.com: Ignore the moans, eating as a family does teens good

hiake · Sep 20, 2007

Ignore the moans: eating as a family does teens good

By Belinda Goldsmith

NEW YORK, Sept 20 (Reuters Life!) - Want to bond with your broody teenagers? Try eating dinner with them five times a week, with a poll finding this keeps them off drugs and alcohol -- and the teens also enjoy it.

A survey released Thursday reaffirmed previous studies that found teenagers who ate dinner as a family five or more times a week are less likely to use drugs, smoke, or drink alcohol than peers who ate with their families two times or less a week.

But the poll of 1,063 teenagers and 550 parents conducted by QEV Analytics found contrary to many parents' expectations, most teenagers actually wanted to eat with their families.

"Overall about 84 percent of the kids said they would prefer to have dinner with their parents," said Elizabeth Planet, project manager of the survey commissioned by The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at New York's Columbia University.

"These are teenagers whose parents will tell you they are difficult and don't want to talk. This is not the sense we are getting from the kids themselves. They prefer it."

The survey comes amid a growing push by some parents and family groups for the return of family meals which have declined sharply since the 1970s and 1999.

A UNICEF report earlier this year put the United States at the bottom of the richest nations when it came to eating as families with only 65 percent of 15-year-olds eating the main meal of the day with their parents several times a week. In France, Italy and Russia, it was more than 90 percent.

The fourth CASA survey on the importance of family dinners found that 59 percent of teens surveyed between April 2 and May 13 reported having dinner with their families at least five times a week.

Teens who had two or less meals a week with their family were 3-½ times more likely to have abused prescription medication, three times more likely to have used marijuana, and one and half times more likely to drink alcohol.

The teens who ate regularly with their families also got better grades, with 64 percent reporting mostly As and Bs compared to 49 percent of other teens.

"These statistics about the link between the likelihood of drug use and the frequency of dinners always surprises me even though we see it year in and year out," said Planet.

But for the first time they asked about the best time of day to talk and the dinner table emerged as the favorite with nearly half of parents and teens -- 47 percent of each.

"There is nothing magical about dinner but it comes at the end of the day when you are winding down and it is a nice time for people to come together," said Planet.

"You don't see the same thing at breakfast time. Everyone is rushing out of the door."

Source: Reuters.com
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I wonder how many teens nowadays still have dinner with their family -unsure

MissCheekS · Sep 20, 2007

"There is nothing magical about dinner but it comes at the end of the day when you are winding down and it is a nice time for people to come together,"

So true....
That is what i miss the most after moving out....dinners with family...i used to eat with them like almost everyday!
just sit down have a nice meal and a nice chat about everyones day....

Dan · Sep 20, 2007

well. one thing this study did not prove: what happens when a child tries to eat as fast as he/she can, so he/she can rush to the computer to play/do/whatever on the computer?

it does NOT account for computer addiction. and i have a case scenario. granted its not legit, considering there isnt a random and controlled group to make a legit conclusion, but im sure the theory is legit.

hiake · Sep 20, 2007

dann said: ↑

well. one thing this study did not prove: what happens when a child tries to eat as fast as he/she can, so he/she can rush to the computer to play/do/whatever on the computer?

it does NOT account for computer addiction. and i have a case scenario. granted its not legit, considering there isnt a random and controlled group to make a legit conclusion, but im sure the theory is legit.
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Well, I don't know about other cultures, but some Chinese/Asian families can be quite strict about the dinner table etiquette...

wind2000 · Sep 20, 2007

Thats an interesting correlation research. Maybe the government should make it a law for children to eat with their parents. -evil

dim8sum · Sep 20, 2007

^lol how would you enforce that

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