so there are people, who become distant to the group of friends in which you reside in then . . . they call you, or msn you, or whatever and then they try to pump you for gossip over your friends man i HATE that i'm a gossip queen but i like chatting with people, you share this i share that i dont like just dishing out to someone the whole life stories of my friend to an "outsider" it kinda turns into this stalking feel, when you HAVE to KNOW, even though you dont even TALK to them yourself anymore It makes me feel like a freaking newspaper screaming "COME TO ME FOR THE HOTTEST NEWS, the AUTOBIOGRAPHY of so and so" they only come for you for information than dump you aside, what the hell
Thats how life is. If they need you for something, they'll be so nice to call you but if not, its screwville for you. My advice is that you dont bother with them at all.