"Lets just be Friends"

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by AsianInvasion, Jul 19, 2008.

  1. AsianInvasion

    AsianInvasion Well-Known Member

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    Ok well I just got the "Lets just be friends" crap recently -__- ... but did you notice. It gets all weird. Like your not really friends anymore. Lots of silence, and when I look at her she turns red and looks away. Anyways has anyone else ever experienced this =]? Share your stories! haha.

    I've been listening to Jordan Chan's - Disqualify cause it seems to be exactly what happened to me.

    http://youtube.com/watch?v=H5T10SUJ4z8

    Its actually pretty good haha.
     
  2. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    well, i gave my first girlfriend the "lets be friends" and instead of becoming friends, we drifted apart and lost contact for 4 years until she found me on facebook lately and its really awkward that she wants to keep in contact. i dont know about other guys, i tend to lose contact with my ex's, because you go from friends to being their boyfriend and then break up and its really hard to going back to being a friend again, because you shared so much together and knew one and another. its really weird >.<
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    Oi, I hate that line.
    Somebody said that to me before and we barely talk anymore. :\
    It's kinda sad.
     
  4. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    this hasnt happened to be me before..
    but i guess in a way its up to the both of u to maintain that friendship closeness if u truly did wanted to stay friends...

    but then again, its like an easy excuse to break up with someone cos u dont have to talk to a friend or rather an acquaintance..
    cos u become acquaintances if u treat each other like hi/bye friends

    *think this belongs in the Love and Relationship section*
     
  5. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    wow i always hated that line... thing is that everything gets awkward
    i rather have them say yeah. lets break up and then not talk anymore
    instead of having it all awkward.. =/
     
  6. I have been able to stay friends with my ex's at least most of them... i don't talk to them that much but we would still talk..
     
  7. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    "Lets be friends with benefits?"
     
  8. mr_evolution

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    "Let's just be friends that won't talk anymore or have anymore future interation, I said friends because I don't feel as bad"
     
  9. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol being hit with a ' Lets just Be Friend' and listen to Jordan chan's 取消資格 = Harsh
     
  10. Flames

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    Never had any gf or tried to ask a girl and get this line, but it is harsh to get that line...the line seems like put our friendship to a test, well after relation...

    Wow what a player lol
     
  11. LOL how does that make me a player...... =\
     
  12. Shini_D

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    It's wishful thinking really...
    that line you say it, kinda hope that maybe can still be friends...but everyone knows it doesnt work that way...its all wishful thinking... sigh x
     
  13. metzo

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    =D luckily i'm still friends with my ex's and are still in contact...tho we dont do much activities no more
     
  14. KT

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    lol, I'm still friends with my ex's .. if you really want to be friends with her again, why don't YOU go talk to her. If she turns red and looks away she's probably just nervous and don't know what to say to you.

    P.S. I wonder if I know this girl.. :shifty: LOL jk.
     
  15. mr_evolution

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    You ARE her! -bowroflarms
     
  16. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    ^ahahahaha ZIng!
     
  17. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    "Let's just be friends" is a girl's way of saying that she still wants to take you to the cleaners but not have to sleep with you anymore; ie. open your wallet, not your zipper, sucka... -what?

    Avoid those like the plague that they are. -noclue

    Ralph
     
  18. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol, u should talk to her, lol if you cant be lovey dovey , u can still be friends, lol
     
  19. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    although my ex didnt use the line after he dump me...
    it was awkward talking to him as a friend....
    what do u expect after dumping me twice...>__<
    so we just drifted apart...but nowadays we do talk once in long while
    i'm not bothered about him no more...
     
  20. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol u know the chinese saying, 好馬不吃回頭草, lol when they whip out their line, lol say , sorry its over, i never want to see you again ! lol u gotta slap him May,!