Online dating? What do you say about it?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Tangdynasty88, Dec 13, 2007.

  1. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    aaahhhh...that has happened to me many many many times. walk into my house and i find a guy sitting on my couch and my mum is calling him son-in-law.
    don't be so closed off to these girls though. ur dad would only want the best for u. besides, it's not like u have to marry them. a cup of coffee isn't gonna end ur life right? if ur willing to take the chance to do the online dating, why be so close minded to a blind date?
     
  2. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    lol but if his dad is introducing him these girls, i think his dad would like them to be potential daughter-in-law? i say its a dangerous pool to tread in...
     
  3. BigC

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    boii is a pretty funny guy; it like boii is sideshow bob:
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    and bb is lisa simpson:
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    Except its more like a sideshow bob and bart simpson relationship lol
     
  4. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    but i dont' think he's in just to play around either. are u?
     
  5. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    ^yah i agree. but honestly i would freak if i came home one day and my parents found me some boy...
     
  6. Tangdynasty88

    Tangdynasty88 Active Member

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    oh no i'm not playing around, and my father as close to even have his friend send there daughter to America just to meet me. I want to find my own love, rather then it being handed to me.
     
  7. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    i just think ur too hard headed and have watched one too many lovely dovey asian dramas. it's not being handed to u. u have the last say in it all. u have the right to say no. its no different then one of ur friends hooking u up with someone.
    i would say though, the girl coming to America is a bit extreme.
    ur not even old. wat's the rush? it's not like ur a girl and worried about becoming an old maid
     
  8. Kate204

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    Honestly, there is a very slim chance you would find a good significant other, but it would be rare! you don't know what kind of person he/she is. People can fake alot of things when your chatting with one another.They could be some kind of creep and plus they could be really dangerous when trying to meet them. I really think its best if you stick around and get to know people at your age from your own town. Much safer than meeting in a chat room not knowing if he's a good guy or bad guy. Be careful if you are heading that route
     
  9. lee-lee

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    omg....this is soooo mean but still kinda funny. poor boii, he's not even around to defend himself.
     
  10. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    he seemed to have disappeared...where is he. it was so much fun to read him defend his "love/non-creepiness" for bb
     
  11. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    ^he's gone to find bb
     
  12. frostshards

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    i think u just need to go out with friends more. chill out, thru ur friends, ull meet their friends, and so on along the chain. keep doing it, and ll find someone eventually. maybe clubbing will cheer u up? great way to meet girls. maybe not keepers, but who knows...whether you do or not...ull still have lots of fun... ;)

    what i think right now, is that you're too shy right now to approach girls. try to go with a friend and meet girls together.l that might give u more confidence. get those girls as friends first and then move on from there.
     
  13. vintage

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    I rather see the girl I'm dating In person. Dating online takes much more investment. Besides what if the person is completely different than the one in her profile? uh-oh =X
     
  14. Tangdynasty88

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    Naw, i'm just in and out kind of. I'm cooking in the kitchen and stuff. But yeah i'll hang out and go see some people. I'll give it a few more tries. and if you mean bb as in bbq beef with some lettuce and alittle bit of herbal spices then yes, i went to look for bb. BBHS- Barbecue beef herbal spices. XD
     
  15. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    omg...LMAO...-rotfl-rotfl-rotfl. i'm sorry tangdynasty88, there is like a side conversation going on in ur thread. boii and bb are actual PA members. boii is after bb, so that's why we keeping talking about it.
    also, what do u mean in and out? and wat does the cooking pertain to? i'm sooo confused...-noclue
     
  16. Tangdynasty88

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    well i leave my computer on and i either play some games or go practice martial arts and i do alot of cooking. LIke i'm kind of in and out of the conversation.
     
  17. auta

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    online dating has its pros such as if you say something wrong u can just end it with a "jkjk" and a =)

    whilist in real life....if you say something bad, its not that easy to recover as they can just walk away and loose interest.
     
  18. boii

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    I think online dating works! I've never tried it but I'm always willing to try new things =) Its the 21st century and with technology these days you can make anything work.
     
  19. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    ^^
    as soon as BB's name is mentioned
    theres always sum1 turning up :p


    personally, i feel that online dating won't really work out
    but i do find that a lot of the time its just a way to start friendships or something with sum1 of friends of friends etc

    as "fake" as everything on the net can be, the ppl i really only talk to on IM are those i kinda know, or atleast thru friends of friends (or pa :p)
     
  20. Knoctur_nal

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    ur just a trouble maker arent ya.